4 memorable dates
Fall, 2014
“I was now a graduate, but a jobless one. Our son was growing. I knew him to be a responsible father. He would strive really hard to provide for us. I admired that he was a father that I never had even though I had my doubts. Even a slave master is not always unkind to his slave. Isn’t that so? I doubted his commitment to our vows. I doubted if he was treating me right. I had my doubts. Many of them, but I never talked to anyone. I was also used to being alone. Doing things by myself.
Our quarrels would not stop. They were quarrels about him and the women in our church and our children's schools. They were quarrels about how the pastors in my local church would support him. They told me I was not submissive enough. It was really about me, more than it was about him. He was also the first to report to my family members. Religious leaders. Mentors. To everyone. I soaked in everything.
At this time, our first son was almost 2 years old. Despite our constant quarrels, he always had his way with me every night. I became pregnant again. We now had two boys. They were charming and energetic. However, our financial challenges increased. My concerns about his unfaithfulness also increased. This time it was a serious quarrel between him and a parent in our kids’ school. I was now becoming exhausted. I started to think about studying abroad. I started to reach out to schools abroad. I just wanted to leave for anywhere but Nigeria.”
For the next 21 days, I decided to switch things up.
I will be going live daily.
21 days live sessions
From today, till the end of the month, I will be teaching live instead on my channels.
Especially on Youtube, Podcast and Instagram. I plan to go live at 9am my time everyday. 3pm Nigerian time.
My goal is to tell you the back story, to my coming out story, and teach some life lessons for 21 days.
I will also teach for the next 21 days about Narcissistic Abuse and the red flags.
The last few days will usher us into my birthday party and book launch.
My book launch is around the corner. I need your help. No matter your location, you can donate to support me, as I share my story with the world please. I can not do this by myself.
I am also inviting you as a guest to my launch/ birthday party.
To attend, register at www.bisolamariam.com/becomingbm
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Your friend,
Queen BM.