5 memorable dates

December, 2012 

Our wedding was the talk of the town. I mean people came from different places. Our wedding date was December 15. He had an important event and asked for the wedding to be moved to another day. I was angry that he did not seek my consent before he asked for our wedding date to be moved to December 20.  I fought hard, but he got what he wanted. A change of wedding date. In the midst of this chaos, he was also constantly engaging women on social media, and sending them his nude pictures. Our wedding date was set, and we got married. My friends were excited for me. I was happy. Happy with the prestige that came with it being a married woman. It made me feel powerful. Made me feel special. I had a ring on and would show off my hands to friends.   

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He told me I was the only special one, but there were several others. I was going crazy. I was crazy that he was texting other women, but would deny it. He would tell me my new state was the reason I was overreacting. That I was pregnant. I also had no one to talk to.  

On a certain day, after reading his messages to other women, I was angry. I was so angry that I dragged his shirt from the neck. I felt really cheated because I was not special after all. I felt betrayed that all his promises were false. That they were lies. All lies. Nothing, but lies!!!  

For the next 21 days, I decided to switch things up.

I will be going live daily.

21 days live sessions

From today, till the end of the month, I will be teaching live instead on my channels.

Especially on Youtube, Podcast and Instagram. I plan to go live at 9am my time everyday. That is 3pm Nigerian time.

My goal is to tell you the back story, to my coming out story, and teach some life lessons for 21 days.

I will also teach for the next 21 days about Narcissistic Abuse and the red flags.

The last few days will usher us into my birthday party and book launch.

My book launch is around the corner. I need your help. No matter your location, you can donate to support me, as I share my story with the world please. I can not do this by myself.

I am also inviting you as a guest to my launch/ birthday party.

To attend, register at www.bisolamariam.com/becomingbm

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