Women Get Fucked in a Gym?
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“People Get Fucked in a Gym?
It was a Saturday morning. We just had Ogi and Akara. Each of us reclined on a different couch in the living room. I started the conversation about my body and the idea that I was not proud of it. I told him I wanted to work on myself and would love to enroll in a gym. We were living in a somewhat sophisticated part of Ibadan. It was in Aare, in New Bodija. There were fitness centers everywhere. It was a culture for folks to exercise in the mornings. So I asked if I could start exercising every morning, and return home before the children get up from bed. He refused. I wanted to know why it did not sit well with him.
“So you want to start parading yourself every morning. You want men to stop you and ask for your cell phone number right? Hmm? You cannot go to the gym. Do you think responsible people go to the gym? Women get fucked by their gym instructors at the gym. You are a married woman. You can do all your exercise at home. I am not in support of this crazy gym idea of yours.” He complained.
I did not understand why exercising was such an issue. I did not listen to him, and he won’t stop calling me a disobedient wife. I started exercising. However, his bad energy would not let me be committed to it. He was always complaining about what I was wearing for my workout sessions. That they were too shapy. Too seductive. What I find confusing was, that if he wanted to have sex with me, there was never an argument about me being a bad wife. When he wanted my body, he would ask me to take different sexual positions, and I would never call me unsubmissive in those instances. Never. I mean, never!”
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