ideyforyou
Bisola-Mariam
A whirl wind of a Q3! More loses than wins, but here is the tea- I served it hot in 4 minutes...
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A whirl wind of a Q3! More loses than wins, but here is the tea- I served it hot in 4 minutes...

Loses. New Substack account. ideyforyou tea. All in one read. Hop in now...

Hello, abundance tribe.

First, listen to the audio, cos it captures everything- but I will be writing about my painful summer experiences in the Bisola-Mariam Substack.

I just wrote this piece there:

Do not praise me, if all you need is my penny.

Do not praise me, if you only need 5 minutes with me, and then you are gone again.

Do not praise me, for looking like the perfect person you see yourself spending the rest of your life with; I am not even sure of who I am, because I am still finding myself.

Will you still praise me if you meet another me tomorrow?

Do not love me, because I make the perfect breakfast.

Do not praise me, because I get the kids off to school early.

Do not praise me, because I put food on our table.

Do not praise me because I look like the connection that can fulfill your tomorrow’s dream.

Do not love me, because I am the hope you seek or the answers to your prayers.

No, please do not praise me because of what YOU THINK I AM TO YOU.

Ha, please do not love me because of WHO YOU THINK I AM.

I do not know who I am.

I have no idea who I am becoming.

So, do not project your desires and definitions of who I am or who I will be.

I am nobody.

Keep reading the poem here:

Bisola-Mariam’s Substack
Do not praise me...
Do not praise me, if all you need is my penny…
Listen now

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ideyforyou
Bisola-Mariam
This podcast is a place where I daily use my voice to guide scholars or anyone who is:
-Looking to secure funding to study/conduct research abroad.
-Looking to monetize their skills or expertise to be able to support families and social good projects in Afric
- Looking to gain the confidence and clarity to leave toxic relationships.
Here, I keep it real. I am human and sometimes I will disappoint you. Some other times, I will inspire you.
Occasionally, I will make you cry. It's a complete package!
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