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Olaoyo Olufola's avatar

Leaving a toxic marriage or relationship has never been easy for anyone, speaking from experience.

Despite the fact that my ex-husband was abusive sexually, physically, emotionally, financially I still stood my ground fighting for the marriage. I almost became a shadow of myself. This guy would leave me in the house to go stay with his ex-girlfriend yet I would never have a courage to face him.

Thank God for using his mother. His mother became threatened about my progress, my financial growth and would be telling me son that I'm a Jezebel and should never allow me to rule or correct him. One day, she threw me out that her son no longer needed a wife.

I left in tears and promised them that I would do everything possible to be successful in life. His mother made that mistake of throwing me out not knowing that's what I needed. She later cried tears begging me to come back that it was the devil but I love the devilish mistake anyway.

Kudos to you Queen BM, you are blazing the trail and your story is inspiring. Thank you for leaving and thank you for sharing your story with us.

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ideyforyou's avatar

Thanks for sharing your story, Scholar Olufola.

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ideyforyou's avatar

I am sorry to hear hear/read this. I am happy you are thriving and you deserve better.

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