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"I am sorry I hit you, let me make you breakfast"
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"I am sorry I hit you, let me make you breakfast"

This is a nightmare. Listen and read.

Abundance tribe. I am on Day 46, and it feels good to have made it this far.

Today, I am sharing with you about trauma bond.

In my book, How To Kill Your Spouse, I shared about the way my ex husband would minimize me and call me sweet names.

Go to www.bisolamariam.com/htkys to learn more about the book.

In fact, you must be aware that trauma bond happens in all kinds of places where relationships exist.

I made a video explaining this.

Watch here:

Here's an activity from a self care journal , Broken Child, Broken Adult, authored by me.

Answer the following questions;

#Does your partner replace very quickly a feeling of pain, with a feeling of love, that leaves you confused?

#Does your partner use victimhood and apologies to win you back and the next day acts exactly the same way?

#Does your partner use showering of gifts or other appreciation to make you keep quiet about a very painful experience.

On a lighter note, have you seen the movie Blood Sisters? Remember the husband to Sarah? That’s a narc. and what he was doing to Sarah is a trauma bond.

Do you understand?

What's coming up?

I open coaching in the next quarter.

Here’s the schedule

July-August : Exclusive Webinar for scholars looking to secure grants, fellowships, scholarships, or assistantships.

Sept-November: Scholars in DV situations, and who need healing, empowerment or legal support.

Visit www.bisolamariam.com/coaching to learn more about my academy.

I will be working with seasoned coaches and other scholars to bring you the best coaching experience.

It’s a holistic one.

Abundance is here.

With love,

Queen BM.

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