Abundance tribe. I am on Day 46, and it feels good to have made it this far.
Today, I am sharing with you about trauma bond.
In my book, How To Kill Your Spouse, I shared about the way my ex husband would minimize me and call me sweet names.
Go to www.bisolamariam.com/htkys to learn more about the book.
In fact, you must be aware that trauma bond happens in all kinds of places where relationships exist.
I made a video explaining this.
Watch here:
Here's an activity from a self care journal , Broken Child, Broken Adult, authored by me.
Answer the following questions;
#Does your partner replace very quickly a feeling of pain, with a feeling of love, that leaves you confused?
#Does your partner use victimhood and apologies to win you back and the next day acts exactly the same way?
#Does your partner use showering of gifts or other appreciation to make you keep quiet about a very painful experience.
On a lighter note, have you seen the movie Blood Sisters? Remember the husband to Sarah? That’s a narc. and what he was doing to Sarah is a trauma bond.
Do you understand?
What's coming up?
I open coaching in the next quarter.
Here’s the schedule
July-August : Exclusive Webinar for scholars looking to secure grants, fellowships, scholarships, or assistantships.
Sept-November: Scholars in DV situations, and who need healing, empowerment or legal support.
Visit www.bisolamariam.com/coaching to learn more about my academy.
I will be working with seasoned coaches and other scholars to bring you the best coaching experience.
It’s a holistic one.
Abundance is here.
With love,
Queen BM.
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