This is day 50 of the 60 days series, on childhood trauma and narcissistic abuse. It has been a journey!
In today’s podcast, I talked about what makes a narc’s boastfulness unhealthy.
I also shared in my book, on page 133, an example of the way in which a narc. displays boastfulness even to those closest to them. I also remember how my ex-husband would say “oba no dey go transfer” every time I talked about moving abroad with him in the past. He was so boastful that he would tell me he doesn’t need to travel abroad to make it. Yes, not everyone needs to relocate, but you sure can tell the difference when such a comment is coming from a place of boastfulness or arrogance. Think about people in your space who are like this.
I made a video to further explain.
Watch here:
I shared that in the book, How to Kill Your Spouse. Visit www.bisolamariam.com/htkys to learn more about the book.
I will share with you, a quick activity you can do. An activity from my other book, Broken Child, Broken Adult.
#1 Does your partner always devalue other people when talking?
#2 Does your partner always emphasize how your life would have been miserable if you didn’t meet them?
#3 Does your partner often tell you they don’t need anyone’s help?
When you get a copy of HTKYS, you get access to the self-care journal.
Go to www.bisolamariam.com/htkys to learn more.
What’s coming up?
Enrollment into my academy has started, and you can enroll at www.bisolamariam.com/coaching.
From July, I shall provide support to scholars looking to study abroad, set up and profit from digital assets/skills, and get legal and social support as victims of domestic violence or abuse. Visit www.bisolamariam.com/coaching
In my coaching community, I will be supporting scholars, alongside 10+ coaches across Africa. The BM Academy is the place to be!
Talk soon,
Bisola-Mariam
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