I love you, and I can die or even kill for you!"

Bisola-Mariam

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I love you, and I can die or even kill for you!"

Have you ever heard about love bombing? Read here.

BM ideyforyou

Jun 13, 2022

Hello abundance tribe. I am here typing on my new pc and am so excited!!! Using a brand new item feels good you know. LOL! Abundance is here!

Let’s talk about love bombing.

It is a strategy that narcs use to attract their victims. If you have been traumatized all your life, you didn’t get validation from your family, when you get validations from a narc., you get the feeling that you have found that special someone.

A narc. makes you feel so special, calls you endlessly, showers you with praises during the love-bombing stage. As soon as you’re hooked, they will discard you.

I also explained more in a video here:

In my book, How To Kill Your Spouse, I talked about my relationship with my ex-husband from page 69, in the chapter titled, Red Flags.

I encourage you to take the following activities from the Broken Child, Broken Adult self-care journal.

#Does your partner gets agitated when you’re speaking with the opposite sex in a way that shows unhealthy jealousy?

#Does your partner ask you many questions about your movements?

#Does your partner show you excessive love and affection that isn’t given to others?

Take these activities so you learn the signs to look out for in a relationship with a narc. Love that is possessive and insecure, isn’t healthy.

To find out more, get my book at www.bisolamariam.com/htkys to read what I have experienced in a narcissistic relationship.

My story is relatable and will equip you with the knowledge you need especially if you’re in doubt of what you’re experiencing. Sometimes victims are not aware that they are being abused. Especially if it’s an emotionally abusive relationship.

What’s coming up at BM’S academy?

I have kicked off enrollment into my academy for folks looking to get monthly live Q&A in my academy: www.bisolamariam.com

There, I will provide monthly coaching for:

# Scholars in domestic violence situations.

#Scholars looking to secure grants, scholarships, fellowships or assistantships, to study/conduct research in the United States or in African countries.

#Scholars looking to set up sustainable digital businesses, non-profits or social enterprises, online and in person, and earn $1,000 or more monthly.

Membership in my coaching community, BM’S Academy is now open.

Click here to join

The monthly subscription is listed below.

Regular member: $1 with access to monthly live Q&A/webinars and free e-books.

VIP member : $100 with all benefits in regular, and additional weekly emails and videos from coach BM.

VVIP: $1000 with all benefits in VIP and bi-weekly zoom call on request and as scheduled by coach BM.

Partner: $10,000 with all benefits in VVIP and weekly zoom call.

To join my program, go to www.bisolamariam.com/coaching

Every month, I plan to hold a live Q&A with those in my academy, offering strategies in the three signature areas.

Here’s the schedule(subject to moderate modifications if necessary) for the next quarter:

July-September: Priority coaching for scholars looking to secure scholarships, grants, fellowships or fellowships to study or conduct research in the United States or in African countries.

October-November: Priority coaching for scholars in need of education, resources or legal services for escaping domestic violence situations.

December: December to Remember Conference.

I had so much to think about this past weekend, and here are my reflections.