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Bisola-Mariam
"I monitor you because I love you"
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"I monitor you because I love you"

Here's another dangerous signal. Read the email

I will share with you today, another red flag in a relationship with a narcissist. In my book, How to Kill Your Spouse. On page 136, I talked about how I my ex husband would go to any length including emailing professors at my university to assert control, and after he had sent out those emails, he would send me private emails, telling me how special I am, and the extent to which he would go to protect me, and not let anyone have me. Love bombing makes you become a slave to a narc. You become a property that has to be USED.

Find out about the book here: www.bisolamariam.com/htkys

I also made a short video explaining this.

https://youtu.be/gOqa_RbdShU

Take the activity below, from my book, Broken Child, Broken Adult.

# Does your partner hurt you?

#Does your partner says ‘I will hurt myself because of you”?

#Do you feel anxious talking about other people around your partner because you’re afraid they would think you are praising someone else?

#Is your partner excessively interested in you sharing their pictures on social media, and becomes a problem if you don’t praise them publicly?

Activities were taken from a self-care journal, due to be released on World Domestic Violence Day in November, with my other book, How to Kill Your Spouse.

Follow our community on Instagram @i.dey.for.you. to keep in touch.

What is coming up?

coming up at BM’S academy?

I have kicked off enrollment into my academy for folks looking to get monthly live Q&A/ webinar with me.

www.bisolamariam.com

There, I will provide monthly coaching for scholars

# In domestic violence situations.

#Looking to secure grants, scholarships, fellowships or assistantships.

#Scholars looking to set up sustainable digital businesses, non-profits or social enterprises, online and in person.

Membership in my coaching community, BM’S Academy is now open.

Click here to join or read more.

The monthly subscription is listed below.

# Regular member: $1 with access to monthly live Q&A/webinars and free e-books.

#VIP member : $100 with all benefits in regular, and additional weekly emails and videos from coach BM.

#VVIP: $1000 with all benefits in VIP and bi-weekly zoom call on request and as scheduled by coach BM.

#Partner: $10,000 with all benefits in VVIP and weekly zoom call or in person coaching on request/availability of coach BM.

To join my program, go to www.bisolamariam.com/coaching

Here’s the schedule(subject to moderate modifications if necessary) for the next quarters.

July-September: Scholarship/Grants webinar series

October-November: Therapy/Legal webinar series.

December: December to Remember Conference/Country tours and CSR projects.

Talk soon,

Queen BM.

Abundance is here…

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