"I told everybody because I love you"

Abundance tribe. It’s day 47 of my 60 days series. In this podcast, I talked about the ways in which narcs use flying monkeys.

I also explained in this video.

In my book, How to Kill Your Spouse, see the book at (www.bisolamariam.com/htkys), I highlighted how my ex husband used flying monkeys on social media, when I asked for a divorce. In fact, I mentioned on page 138, how some folks send messages to my inner circle because they wanted to destroy me. Narcs will go to any length, and in this process, they will use anybody. Those people are their flying monkeys.

I am sharing here an activity from my second book, Broken Child, Broken Adult below. You get this copy for free when you buy How to Kill Your Spouse. Go here : www.bisolamariam.com/htkys

Answer the following questions;

#Is your partner the first to report to your religious leaders/family members?

#Does your partner implicate you when report is made to those people?

#Do you end up apologizing to people and including your partner for something you didn't do?

These are some of the activities from the self care journal book. Get HTKYS on www.bisolamariam.com/htkys to get this self care journal as well.

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Your friend,

Bisola-Mariam