Abundance tribe. It’s day 48 of my 60 days series. In this podcast, I talked about the ways in which narcs use hoovering to suck you back in or make you jealous so you can return to them.
I also explained in this video.
In my book, How to Kill Your Spouse, see the book at (www.bisolamariam.com/htkys), I highlighted how my ex-husband would send messages with the intention of either trying to get me to stay or telling me about his ex-lovers. I also attached screenshots of his messages in my book, How to Kill Your Spouse (Go to www.bisolamariam.com/htkys).
I am sharing here an activity from my second book, Broken Child, Broken Adult below. You get this copy for free when you buy How to Kill Your Spouse. Go here : www.bisolamariam.com/htkys
Answer the following questions;
#Is your partner quick to compare you with ex-lovers?
#Or does your ex-partner try to come back into your life by telling you no one out there is better than you?
#When you answer the questions above, make a list of the reasons you become a victim every time you go back?
#Make a list of the things you’re afraid of, every time you consider leaving?
These are some of the activities from the self care journal book. Get HTKYS on www.bisolamariam.com/htkys to get this self care journal as well.
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